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Monday, 23 November 2015
Tuesday, 17 November 2015
YOUR PAIN AND STRUGGLES ARE NOT THE PECULIAR TO YOU
You may believe that every person you see smiling or looking outwardly perfect or well put together is free of challenges, hence their appearance of being is captured within your perception. But it may be an untrue and unrealistic conclusion, as life's journey consists of all things including challenges and failures. Those inevitable struggles can be, by design, the aid to one's mental and emotional growth. The reason a certain person's pain may not be visible or immediately perceptible is because that person may have learned to take authority over the situation or the person may be adept at masking their pain and therefore projecting a perfect life in public.
Some of us doll up or adorn ourselfs with all the beautiful, trendy or even very expensive designer clothes and ride in expensive cars to momentarily escape our pain but we remain the prisoners of the pain we feel. As much as we try to insulate ourselves from it, we still know who we are and how we have fallen short of who we should be.
From my experiences, I know that it's far healthier to learn to deal with your problems more effectively; seek solutions to the problems inflicting you with pain, than to mask your pain or run around exhibiting the pain and maybe seeking sympathy by burdening others with your tales of woe and victim-hood. To be sure,
it is much better to deal with your pain by understanding what caused it and learning from it, so you don't dwell in the past and go forward into the future to attain your full potential!
May God guide you accordingly, in Jesus name I pray...Amen! I love you